Women are not losing interest in bed…
They’re losing interest in the sex they’re having…
There is much said about lack of feminine libido in the world these days.
Yet when we we get a bit closer to women and hear what they really have to say it is not sex they’re losing interest in.
It’s more that they are losing interest in in the sex they’re having- disconnected, performance based sex.
Sex that is not a shared experience.
Sex that is not pleasurable, that is even painful.
Sex that leaves them feeling like a semen receptacle.
Women are as caught in this conditioned way of having sex as men are but are more fed up and wanting something different.
Women generally are interested in mutually connecting, equally pleasurable and deeply satisfying, even magical lovemaking.
This is the sex they will find the time and motivation for. And why wouldn’t they?
Women are looking for connection
There can be many reasons behind why a woman’s libido has gone out to lunch but here we’re going to focus on the aspect of connection. Women are not losing interest in connection, and will only do so when hell freezes over…Men want connection too.
Yet don’t we connect through the very act of sex, through two bodies becoming joined into one? Well, yes. But this is only the most basic layer of connection.
There is more…
It’s where we are inside of us that takes connection to a whole different place. It’s starts with how connected are we to ourselves. If we’re stressed, worn out, living in our heads, not feeling our emotions, living in unused bodies then the sex we’ll have will have a minimum of connection. So how do we get more connected? Say YES to this part of yourself. Your body listens to what your mind says and the more you say YES to it the more it will say YES to you! (The opposite is also true and you don’t want that!). Recognise that you are a sexual being and take ownership of it.


