Your individual journey of masculine self discovery is unique.
As men, our role is crucial, not only for ourselves, but for all of those around us, our intimate relationships, as lovers, as role models, as a father, son, coach, teacher and every other aspect of our lives..
Ask yourself this simple question…
“who are your masculine role models in life and why….?”
And as your sexuality is a vital part of you, especially in relationship, ask yourself a more difficult question… “who are your sexual masculine role models in life and why….?”
If you have trouble answering these questions, or if it opens up more questions, doubts or even previously unknown feelings, then you are not alone.
Generally speaking, as men we really do suffer from a lack of healthy sexual masculine role models.
So many times, men who are held up as leading figures tumble down for some “oversight” in their behaviour.
And then there’s the shadowy, internal beliefs we carry about how men “should be”, derived from the media, movies, pornography and the unspoken but known by all “Man Code” that often lead us astray from who we are.
Successful relationships succeed when men connect with their “healthy”, and start discovering their own personal and intimate version of it that gives us life purpose.
This is not about arriving at the “healthy” destination, but it is simply starting your own version of your journey of discovery. It’s one that will be exciting, challenging, rewarding and more.
One size definitely does not fit all, and my journey of discovery, as you’ll see throughout our website, is here to help you kick start your own.
Graeme Sudholz